what do you think when you do some good deeds?
what do you think when you're helping someone else?
is it for money?
or love?
or because you don't have anything else to do?
or is it simply because
you love helping people?
mine..
it's more to the latter
but of course
there has got to be some circumstances
when you're helping someone,
do you think about the benefit that you get?
or what he or she will pays you?
if someone asks for help,
do you runaway
or lend some helping hands instead?
we live in a world full with people.
no matter how and when,
you will find out that there's people need your assistance.
need your guidance.
need your hands.
think about this.
someone asks for your help.
and you agreed to help him/her.
he/she really grateful for your help and says thanks.
you will:
a) say 'it's my pleasure'
b) say 'you need to pay me'
c) smile and pretend that nothing happen
your answer?
okay.
let's think about another situation.
a asked
b for help
and
b agreed.
but
b is making face
as if
a has ruined
b's day and spoiled
b's precious time.
do you think that:
a)
a is wrong for disturbing
bb)
b is wrong for being not sincere
c) who cares
a or
b is wrong?
judge yourself.
i seldom refuse to help people.
if i refuse,it means that i have bigger and more important thing to do rather than helping.
sometimes,
people asked me
"you so free to help others huh?"
"don't you have any better thing to do than helping him/her?"
they don't understand.
i remember my bro,bung said
"if you're not helping me,i won't help you"
that's what life is.
if you don't help people,
people won't help you.
you never know when you're going to need help.
you never know the day that you'll be left alone without anyone and you say to yourself
"how i wish i would have help him,he might helps me now"
we will need help.
and that help might comes from the one you have rejected.
the one that you said "no,i can't"
by that time comes,
you might need to help people as much as you could.
you may get more than just a 'thank you'.
